Queen and Country
As of yesterday I am a Canadian citizen. I suspect there are some on both sides of the border with mixed feelings about that, but I feel good about it. And I think my Canadian grandmother would be proud.
She left eastern Canada in 1904 on a train bound for California with her husband and six kids, including my infant father. For the rest of her long life (93 years) she continued to consider Canada home and wrote long, sappy poems about her longing to return. She never did, but a few years ago I returned there and found a few living relatives, as well as many more buried in old cemeteries.
Yesterday I joined 62 others—from 19 different countries—in the citizenship ceremony. After a rousing and welcoming speech from the presiding judge we all raised our hands and pledged our allegiance to…the Queen of England. OK, she’s technically the Queen of Canada too. But it made me feel rather cosmopolitan. She seems like a nice lady. The wording also included “…her heirs and successors…”, which I took to specifically refer to Kate Middleton. If Kate ever needs my help, all she has to do is ask.
One of the things I find particularly appealing about Canada is its ethnic diversity, particularly in the cities. Canada is generally welcoming of immigrants. One in five Canadian citizens are foreign born, with plenty more foreigners living in the country as permanent residents. The UK leads the list, followed by China and India. I miss Mexicans, who are way down the list.
But it seems to me that Canadians like to think of themselves as benefactors to the less fortunate, those who come to Canada to escape political and religious unrest, or from underdeveloped countries seeking economic opportunity. There is clearly some ambivalence towards Americans whose motives are less clear. To be fair, Americans don’t add much as far as diversity goes. There is plenty of American cultural influence here—probably too much—but it has next to nothing to do with the number of American-born citizens and residents living in the country.
While I’d like to say I moved to Canada from the US to fulfill my grandmother’s dream, or to connect with my Canadian heritage, the actual reasons were more traditional—political and economic. During the Bush years I gave up hope that the US could be the kind of place I wanted to live, or felt I belonged. Part of what I realized in my middle-aged years was that there just wasn’t enough time left. And there was a pretty good chance things were going to get even worse.
The second reason was the American healthcare system, which I simply couldn’t afford. The system worked well enough for the wealthy and well-employed, but for way too many others “health care” was little more than crisis management, if that. Particularly as I got older, I felt it was only a matter of time before the healthcare system would harvest whatever assets I had, then let me die. That’s no way to live.
My wife is Canadian, so moving to Canada was an easy decision. But I felt very fortunate because Canada would have been my first choice in any case. Canada has long been regarded as civilized, sane and friendly, as well as politically and culturally liberal (though that has changed a bit in recent years…)
And then there is the Canadian healthcare system. I’ll have more to say about that some other time, but for now I’ll just note that it is a tremendous relief to know that if/when I have a health issue I can have it treated without having to check my bank account. Very civilized.
I’m still a US citizen, of course. Both countries allow dual citizenship. For me that feels right, since I have roots in both countries. While the US portrays itself as a melting pot, Canadians make much of the idea that Canada is more like a tapestry, or tossed salad—ethnic and cultural differences are not erased, but combine to make the country what it is. I may never entirely “fit in” here, but at least now I feel more like I am where I belong.
Congrats! I knew this was one of your goals; didn’t realize you also had family ties and that makes it all the richer. hugs all ’round!!
Best, Katie & Brian
Thanks! My grandmother’s side of the family had some interesting history. She was descended from loyalists who moved to Canada during the Revolutionary War.
Congratulations on becoming a Canadian citizen. It is good to have you as one of us. Next time our paths cross I will teach you the secret “Canuck” handshake!!!!!
Thanks Denis. The last time I attempted the secret Canuck handshake I somehow ended up with a hockey puck in my pocket. I hate when that happens.
And now you get to file TWO tax returns!
Even if I don’t make any money?
Hey Jim,
Regarding “some on both sides of the border with mixed feelings,” there is no reason to care about that so long as YOU are feeling joyful about it. Personally, I decided to carefully evaluate and clearly define my own position about it, only to discover that I don’t have one.
Regarding health care, may you never need it. “Health care” isn’t healthy, and it is a misnomer. It would more appropriately be called “sick care” or “badly bent and broken care.” Real health care is eating dark leafy greens and supplementing with Ganoderma lucidum.
You identified Faye as your “wife.” Apparently our invitation to the wedding got lost in the mail …
If you ever want to re-visit the land of your other citizenship, It would be wonderful to have you come hang out with us for a day or two. It has been waaay to long.
Oh–something that just popped into my mind–we are currently offering for sale that Blazer that would have been parked where you parked the day the forest attacked your Subaru. The last remnant of our construction years.